 I grew up on the South Side of Chicago and attended Chicago Public Schools. This was not the land of big dreams. The people around me were hard-working, but their aspirations were often practical and close to home. No one was jetting off to DC for a summer internship or talking about their acceptance to an Ivy League school. Many were headed right to the workforce or into the military after high school. Life revolved around the neighborhood, and dreams rarely stretched beyond attending a state college.
Now, contrast that with a world where kids grow up going to “Take Your Kid to Work Day” at their parent’s law firm or at fortune 500 companies. Or where kids grow up internationally because their parents work for the State Department. In those circles, thinking big is the default. I did have some entrepreneurial influences, my parents scraped together enough to buy a $28K rental property, then another ten years later. And my first job (beyond babysitting) was working as a bookkeeper for my neighbor’s gourmet artisan cheese distribution business. But for the most part, my exposure to big visions and bold possibilities came later in life. The Circle That Shapes You Whether you grew up in a neighborhood where everyone worked in factories, as an Army brat living on base, or in a place where every parent had a white-collar job, we didn’t choose our beginnings. But we do choose who we surround ourselves with today. You’ve probably heard the saying: “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” It’s not just a catchy phrase, it’s reality. Your circle shapes your mindset, your standards, your possibilities. So, here’s the real question: How can you widen your circle? When you choose right, you gain: New perspectives — You see options you didn’t even know existed. New opportunities — You hear about jobs, projects, and ideas you never would have stumbled across. New standards — You naturally raise your game when you’re surrounded by people playing at a higher level. 3 Ways to Enlarge Your Circle (and Choose the Right People) Put yourself in new rooms — on purpose Attend events, conferences, or meetups that attract people you admire or want to learn from. Volunteer on a board. Take a class outside your comfort zone. You can’t expand your network from your couch. Look for the “energy spark” The right rooms will light you up. You’ll feel more engaged, curious, and maybe even a little nervous. Pay attention to that tingle of imposter syndrome. It often means you’re in the right place, stretching into your next version of yourself. Seek people who think differently If everyone in your circle agrees with you and shares your exact experiences, you’re in an echo chamber. Seek out people from different industries, backgrounds, and life paths. The contrast will open your mind. We don’t get to pick where we start. But we do get to pick who we surround ourselves with, and those choices can expand your vision in ways that your younger self couldn’t have imagined. So here’s your challenge: Put three things on your calendar this week that will put you in new rooms, spark new conversations, or connect you with people who think differently. What are you going to do first? If you’re ready to widen your circle and design a career that fuels your life, not the other way around. Connect with me for your complimentary connection call. Together, we’ll unapologetically prioritize your desires, reclaim your power, and define your work in a way that feels aligned, exciting, and uniquely yours. Schedule HERE! #CareerGrowth #MindsetMatters #ThinkBigger #NetworkingTips #CareerPivot #PersonalDevelopment #DreamBig #LevelUp #WomenInBusiness #LifeByDesign #CareerCoach #GrowYourNetwork #LeadershipDevelopment #SuccessMindset
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 You can’t scroll for long without seeing a call to “take back your career” by starting a side hustle. Maybe yours started with a doTERRA kit, selling your homemade treats at the farmers market, or flipping thrift store finds on Poshmark. Maybe, like many professionals post-layoff, you dipped your toe into consulting, only to realize you get to keep the paycheck, but you also carry the pressure of constantly chasing the next gig.
The idea of building side income isn’t new. My own mom ran a daycare out of our house. Over the years, I’ve had plenty of side jobs myself, from painting and dog sitting to a brief, and let’s just say, educational stint with Amway. Today, more and more people are rethinking traditional work and using side hustles as a pathway to something more. Flexibility. Freedom. A way to monetize your brilliance on your terms. But before you jump in, it’s important to zoom out. The right side hustle isn’t the trendiest one, it’s the one that actually fits you, your life, and your goals right now. Here are the key things to consider before you dive in: Time: What Do You Actually Have to Work With? Be brutally honest with yourself. Do you have 5 hours a week, or 25? Do you have caregiving responsibilities, health needs, or a full-time job? There’s no one-size-fits-all path. But you do need to know what you’re building. Start by mapping your weekly bandwidth. This helps set realistic expectations and avoid burnout.“What can I build?” “What can I sustainably maintain for the next 90 days?” Financial Reality Check: What’s Your Runway and Revenue Goal? Are you starting this hustle to bring in quick cash, to build a long-term income stream, or to eventually replace your 9–5? That answer shapes everything. How much do you need to make each month? Do you have savings to float you while it ramps up? Are you supplementing a job—or hoping this becomes the job? Get clear on your financial must-haves vs. nice-to-haves. A side hustle without a financial plan is just a hobby that could stress you out. Support + Sanity: Who’s Really in This With You? Side hustles don’t happen in a vacuum, they happen in real life, with real responsibilities. Before you commit, take a look at your support system and financial picture: Have you talked to your family or partner? Side hustles can mean late nights, early mornings, and a laptop on vacation. Buy-in from the people you live with can make or break your momentum. Set expectations early and talk openly about time, money, and shared priorities. What’s your financial reality? Even a “cheap to start” hustle may have startup costs, delayed payments, or months before consistent income. Can you handle that runway without extra stress? What sacrifices will need to be made short-term? Who will help you stay in the game when it gets hard? Because it will get hard. You’ll hit walls. You’ll doubt yourself. You’ll wonder if it’s worth it. That’s when you need people who get it, other entrepreneurs, an accountability partner, a coach, a mastermind, or even a friend who will remind you why you started. Build your support system now, before you're running on fumes and questioning everything. Once you’ve taken an honest look at your time, money, and support system, it’s time for the fun part, exploration. There are a million ways to earn extra income, but not all of them will light you up or fit your lifestyle. Let’s walk through a few key questions that will help you uncover the right hustle for you. The Right Hustle for You Ask yourself: Do I want to offer services or create products? Am I open to digital tools and automation, or do I want a more human, hands-on role? Do I want to grow this into a business or keep it casual and contained? If you're not sure what to pursue, test a few ideas fast and small before fully committing. Your Sellable Skills: What’s in Your Toolbox? Start with what you already have. Did you grow up in an entrepreneurial household? What industry and skills did you learn? What do people already come to you for? What can you do quickly that solves a problem? What energizes you enough that you’d do it even if no one paid you, but also, what will someone actually pay for? This is where my spark worksheet can help (Download it here). Often, your side hustle gold is hidden in plain sight. Come up with some ideas, run the numbers, talk to your supporters and remember, your side hustle doesn’t have to be your forever thing. It just has to be the right next thing. I’m Maria, a career strategist who helps professionals in transition to reignite their purpose, monetize their brilliance, and design a career that works for the life they’re living now. Whether you’re rekindling your career, launching a side hustle, shifting into entrepreneurship, or building a portfolio career, I’m here to help you navigate the messy middle and take bold, aligned steps forward. Ready to explore what’s possible? Let’s start with your spark, schedule your complementary career exploration call today: https://calendly.com/mariadastur/30-minute-exploration-session #SideHustle #SideHustleLife #CareerPivot #CareerTransition #BuildYourOwnPath #WorkOnYourTerms #MonetizeYourBrilliance #CareerDesign #CreateYourOwnJob #PortfolioCareer #MidlifeReinvention #ReigniteYourPurpose #EntrepreneurMindset #BusinessStrategy |
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